Mad dads in sport and calling your son Sachin does any of it make a difference? Barney Ronay

4 months in The guardian

Like everyone else, I am desperate for Sachin Dhas to make it, or do enough to leave his mad dad happy in his mad dotageIt was Carlos Mac Allister, dad of Liverpool’s Alexis, who came up with the ideal phrase for an increasingly common sporting type, the papa tonto. These are the crazy sport parents, those energetically deluded dads and mums of sporting kids (but yes: mainly dads) who insist on being micro-involved to a comically obsessive degree.This is not to take an anti-dad stance. Like being a mum, which seems to the outsider basically impossible, being a dad is hard enough. This is an unmapped path, an unrelenting assault of tender feelings, the protective gene, the competitive urge, the fear of failure (the one key ingredient to not actually failing, but no one tells you this). Plus the shadow, in all our inherited words and deeds, of previous tonto dads, the dads of history, who were as it happens also just making it up as it came their way.Do you have an opinion on the issues raised in this article? If you would like to submit a response of up to 300 words by email to be considered for publication in our letters section, please click here. Continue reading...

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