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What happened to you wasn’t OK, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith, perhaps creating a record of what took place might helpRead more advice from Eleanor Gordon-SmithI have been bullied, laughed at and been at the receiving end of various (probably unconscious) biases that resulted in me having to change jobs multiple times. I consider myself fortunate that every job change has proven to be the right step upwards in my career, but I can’t reconcile myself with the facts that those perpetrators are carrying on and thriving as if nothing has happened.I regularly wake up at 3am with a pounding chest as all that trauma comes back to me, and feel sheer anger and helplessness against what seems to be a real injustice. Continue reading...